Stop Asking for Free Domination—If You’re Not Paying, You’re Not Serving
Congratulations, You’ve Proven You’re Not Worthy
If you’re one of those subs sliding into My DMs with a “Hi, Mistress” or an unsolicited life story, expecting free attention, congratulations—you’ve already failed the first test. You’ve proven, without a shadow of a doubt, that you don’t understand what submission is. Spoiler alert: Domination isn’t free, and neither is My time. I’m a Goddess, not a charity hotline.
Now, before you get all pouty about how “real submission shouldn’t be about money”, let Me stop you right there. You’re confusing submission with entitlement. Real submission is about value—demonstrating that you respect My time, My presence, and My expertise enough to offer something in return. That something can take many forms, but in the world of professional Femdom, it’s often paid tribute, custom orders, or participation in paid challenges. Why? Because My time is valuable, and you don’t get it for free just because you’ve decided you’re horny today.
Domination Isn’t Free Labor
Let’s address the epidemic of broke wannabes who think Femdom should come at zero cost. You wouldn’t expect a personal trainer to coach you for free. You wouldn’t ask a chef to cook you dinner because you’re “really into food”. Yet somehow, in the Femdom space, certain wannabe subs believe they’re entitled to the time and energy of a skilled Dominant without offering a thing in return.
Here’s the reality: domination is labor. It’s emotional labor, mental labor, and often even physical labor. Crafting your experience—whether it’s through tasks, training, or custom content—requires effort, creativity, and expertise. When you ask for free domination, what you’re really saying is, “I don’t value You enough to compensate You for Your work.” And that’s not submission—it’s freeloading.
Submission Is About Offering, Not Taking
True submission begins with offering. Whether it’s offering obedience, effort, or tribute, it’s about giving before you receive. A submissive who approaches Me with genuine respect and devotion doesn’t just ask, “What can You do for me?” They ask, “How can I serve You?” That’s the mindset of a paying submissive—someone who understands that serving a superior woman means demonstrating value first.
And no, “I’ll be really obedient” isn’t an offering. Obedience is the baseline expectation for any submissive. It’s like showing up late for a job interview and saying, “I promise I’ll show up on time for work.” Cute, but insufficient. Real submissives—those who truly crave to serve and improve themselves under My rule—don’t hesitate to invest in their submission, whether through tribute, purchasing audios, or enrolling in My training programs. They know that the experience I offer is worth it.
Broke Wannabes vs. Paying Submissives
Now, let’s take a moment to distinguish between the two species of subs:
Broke Wannabes: These are the subs who think a few emojis and a “Please, Mistress” will earn them attention. They’re the ones who demand free domination while offering nothing in return. Spoiler alert: they get ignored.
Paying Submissives: These are the subs who understand that My time isn’t free. They offer tribute, participate in paid challenges, purchase My audios, or sign up for My exclusive content. They don’t beg for attention—they earn it by proving their devotion through action.
It’s no coincidence that the subs who pay are also the ones who grow the most. Why? Because they’ve invested in their submission. They’ve demonstrated that they’re serious about serving and ready to be molded into something greater. Meanwhile, the broke wannabes stay stuck in their cycle of entitlement and rejection, wondering why no real Domme takes them seriously.
Want My Attention? Prove You’re Worthy
Here’s the hard truth: if you’re not paying, you’re not serving. Domination is a privilege, not a right. My attention is something to be earned, not demanded. And the first step to earning it? Offering something of value.
Want My attention? Start by paying tribute. Show Me that you value My time and expertise. Purchase an audio session, enroll in My training, or join My forums and engage in meaningful ways. Submissives who invest in their submission find themselves on a path to real growth, real fulfillment, and—if they’re lucky—real ownership.
For everyone else? Keep begging in the DMs. I’ll be over here, ignoring you, while My paying submissives get what you can only dream of.
Ready to Prove Yourself?
Stop asking. Start offering. Whether it’s tribute, a purchase from My Shop, or joining My forums to engage with real submissives, take the first step toward earning My attention.