The "What Type of Submissive are You?" Quiz

The “What Type of Submissive Are You?” Quiz

by Mistress Sofia Locktight at WorshipSofia.com

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Quiz

How does your submission serve or fulfill your Dominant's desires or fantasies?

By ensuring that my submission, though seemingly complete, aligns with my interests, indirectly serving theirs.

I'm not sure I am able to serve but I am trying to find a way to fullfill my partner's BDSM desires that isn't too much for me.

My submission challenges my Dominant to explore beyond their agreed upon limits, fulfilling my fantasies regardless.

My love for fear play directly feeds into my Dominant's fantasies of control and psychological domination.

My endurance and resilience satisfy my Dominant's desire to test and expand limits while embracing their sadistic side.

My willingness to get my adreniline pumping and embrace excitement and variety in our dynamic.

My engagement with high-stakes scenarios caters to my Dominant's darker, more daring blackmail fantasies.

Are you currently looking for a Dominant?

No, I'm already in a long-term committed dynamic.

No, I'm only exploring and not looking for a Dominant right now.

Yes, I'm ready to begin serving the right Dominant as soon as I find them.

Yes, I'm seriously searching for a compatible Dominant.

Yes, but it's not a priority right now.

How do you view the concept of ownership and collars?

As symbols of the empowerment and authority of my Female Dominant.

As the ultimate expression of my submission and devotion, a binding and sacred covenant that makes me Their's completely.

As meaningful but secondary to the day-to-day service and support I provide.

I see them as symbols that can be manipulated to suit my agenda, creating a perception of submission while maintaining my autonomy.

As essential elements of my identity and submission, signifying my total commitment and being owned.

I'm uncertain about being owned or wearing a collar as it seems weird to me.

Ownership and collars? They're challenges to be twisted. If I wear one, it's on my terms, as a sign of my choosing.

What is your ideal way to express devotion to your Dominant?

An activity that I enjoy where I can make others uncomfortable or push past their boundaries.

A scene centered around ritual worship, where I can express my adoration through dedicated service.

Facilitating my Dominant's encounter with someone else, arranged for my Dominant’s pleasure, where my support and preparation enhance their experience.

A scenario where I seem to be in a traditional submissive role but have orchestrated the events to suit my desires.

An arrangement where I pamper my Dominant with gifts, tributes, and experiences funded by my submission.

Something simple and non-BDSM focused that allows us to connect deeply without overwhelming me.

What aspect of serving your Dominant do you find most rewarding?

The ability to nurture and care for them, seeing the tangible effects of my support on their well-being.

Harmonizing with their needs and expectations to create a seamless and supportive environment.

I don’t really 'serve' in the traditional sense. If anything, it’s about seeing how far things can go before it’s too much.

Well, I’m all for making my partner happy in general, but I don’t see myself 'serving' someone to be rewarding for me.

Ensuring their physical and emotional safety, being their steadfast protector.

Guiding scenarios to ensure both my desires are met, even if it means influencing the situation subtly.

What phrase or command from your Dominant instantly deepens your submission?

Show how much you adore my feet/shoes," inviting me to demonstrate my worship and dedication.

I appreciate your willingness to try this for me.’ Knowing my efforts to understand and participate in my partner's fantasy, even though I don't enjoy it, means a lot to me.

You'll remain locked until I decide otherwise," reinforcing my lack of control over my own sexual release.

Prove your devotion' challenges me to subtly demonstrate my control and influence while ostensibly obeying.

Hearing my Dominant call me by a feminine name or telling me to 'be a good bitch' instantly reminds me of my place and deepens my sense of submission.

Hearing 'Are you sure you want to try me?' It's a direct challenge, and it makes me even more ready to overcome boundaries.

How do you prefer to confront or engage with your fears within a BDSM context?

I manipulate my fears into scenarios where I can still maintain some control over the situation.

By strategically using them as a motivation mechanism, to further my service to my Dominant and avoid having my secrets exposed!

With caution and lots of communication, I'm still uncomfortable with BDSM as a whole.

Through gradual exposure, finding strength and pleasure in each step that tests and expands my limits.

I relish scenarios that toy with my fears, finding excitement in the unknown and the feeling of being on edge.

I challenge them head-on, often going beyond negotiated limits to test what I'm truly capable of handling.

By diving headfirst into them, the adreniline rush of overcoming a challenge enhances my submission.

How do you handle rules and protocols in your dynamic?

I see them as suggestions; I'm motivated by the desire to explore what happens when I bend or break them.

I find joy in protocols that reinforce my pet identity and our bond.

I use rules as a framework to navigate my influence within the dynamic.

I thrive under clear guidance and nurturing, finding comfort in rules that protect and guide me.

I see rules as a playground for my playful defiance and a way to engage with my Dominant.

With confusion and caution, needing clear explanations and reasons for any rules related to BDSM as I'm still not sure about any of this.

What motivates your submission?

It's an oppurtunity for me to explore what I like with someone who can't tell other people about what I did.

Compersion—finding joy in my Dominant’s happiness and satisfaction, even from sources or people other than myself.

The act of surrendering my financial power as the ultimate sign of devotion and submission.

It's not for me, it's about a willingness to explore my partner’s world and desires.

The desire to worship them by showing unyielding adoration and reverence towards my Dominant.

The challenge of maintaining influence while fulfilling my Dominant’s commands.

How do you view the role of physical presence in BDSM?

The idea is intimidating. I'm very curious but I think I’d prefer minimal physical presence until I’m more comfortable and confident.

I don't see its value, I think strong connections and fulfilling experiences can also be built online without physical contact.

Physical presence means more opportunities to challenge and disrupt the expected dynamic.

I'm not sure, I'm to new to this to know but I'm very curious to try in-person scenes as well as anything I can get my hands on, online.

I'm only intersted in this for my partner so they would need to be there or there is no point for me.

It’s an interesting aspect, but not essential. I’m more focused on how I can control the situation, physically present or not.

How do you react if your Dominant is in a bad mood and needs cheering up?

They need to take care of that themselves, I'm here for my needs not theirs.

I'm there with a warm hug and a listening ear, ready to do whatever it takes to make them feel better.

I would try to comfort them in a traditional way, maybe by making them a cup of tea or just being there for them.

I'd listen and offer suggestions that I know could improve my mood, subtly guiding them towards a state I desire.

I'd suggest the use the oppurtunity to work it out on me mentally. Mind fucking me always makes them feel better.

I’d crack some jokes or do something silly to get a laugh out of them, lightening the mood.

How do you view the concept of control within your D/s dynamic?

It's not really about control, nobody can control me I'm just here for some fun.

It’s about relinquishing control to enhance my Dominant’s experiences, even if it means stepping back so my Dominant can be with someone else.

As a sacred exchange, where my submission serves as a form of worship.

Control is a game; it’s about subtly maneuvering situations to my advantage while appearing to submit.

I’m more comfortable with equal partnership but open to exploring what control means within safe boundaries.

Control is most meaningful when it extends to financial aspects, showcasing trust and real surrender.

How does your fetish influence your daily life or routines outside of sessions?

It makes me more strategic in my everyday interactions, always looking for ways to maintain a sense of control and influence.

Through regular care and appreciation of feet or shoes, even in non-sexual contexts.

It doesn’t really. I’m trying to keep an open mind, but it’s mostly something I consider when my partner brings it up or wants to try something.

By constantly reminding me of my submission through the physical presence of the chastity device.

I often find myself seeking out small acts of rebellion in everyday life, testing boundaries even outside the D/s dynamic. It's like a constant state of arousal, waiting for the next challenge.

It often leads me to secretly incorporate feminine items into my daily wear under my regular clothes, constantly reminding me of my submissive status and the humiliation I crave.

What is your ideal scene or play activity?

An activity that allows me to fully embody my pet role and strengthen my bond with my Dominant.

Something mild and non-intimidating that allows for emotional closeness without deep involvement in BDSM.

A scene filled with receiving nurturing care, gentle guidance, and exploration of my innocent side.

Anything that involves pushing limits to the edge, possibly incorporating taboo or risky elements as a suprise for my Dominant.

A carefully orchestrated scene where I appear to yield but ultimately guide the outcome.

A scenario that involves teasing, playful resistance, and ultimately surrendering after a fun and engaging challenge.

How do you react to public exposure or the idea of being seen by others in vulnerable or compromising positions?

With calculated acceptance. If being exposed serves my underlying goals or I can use it to manipulate perceptions, I'll play along, ensuring I maintain a sense of control over how I'm seen.

I don't have to have it, but it can enhance the experience of being with multiple people. Being seen in such a state by others amplifies my feelings of desire and submission, making the interaction even more intense.

With excitement. It's an opportunity to shock and push against societal norms and push beyond consent. I might even escalate the situation to make it more intense or controversial.

It's pretty much my worst nightmare. I'd need to be coaxed into even the smallest display of public submission, and I'd prefer it to be as low-key as possible.

I find it deeply humiliating yet strangely enjoyable. It affirms my submission and the control my Dominant has over me, fulfilling a deep need for vulnerability.

It's my favorite thing. Public exposure is an integral part of my submission, making me feel proud and exhilarated to be seen as my Dominant's prize.

How do you feel about participating in a scene where roles are reversed temporarily?

Role reversal can be a strategic opportunity. I ensure that even when reversing roles, the scene ultimately aligns with my deeper desires.

It's exhilarating. Reversing roles allows me to challenge not just my own limits but those of my Dominant and the scene itself.

It's my nature to switch roles. I live for the thrill of the hunt, either as the hunter or the hunted. Role reversals directly aligns with my primal instincts.

Role reversals excite me; they're an essential part of my dynamic. Switching roles allows me to explore all aspects of my BDSM identity, always with the consent and under the direction of my Dominant.

That's too complicated for me. My partner is interested in this and I am just seeing if I can find a way to please them.

If my Dominant commands it, I'll embrace the role reversal as another form of service. My submission is about fulfilling their desires, even if it means temporarily topping.

What is the primary way you express your submission to your Dominant?

Dressing as a woman to humiliate myself for my Dominant is how I primarily show my submission.

Through enduring chastity and relinquishing control over my sexual desires and release.

I subtly guide scenarios to satisfy my Dominant, making it seem like their idea, which reinforces my submission while ensuring my desires are met.

By worshiping and adoring my Dominant's feet or shoes as a form of service.

I test the limits of our agreed boundaries, always pushing a bit further to see how much I can get away with. It's about seeing how my Dominant reacts and how much control they truly have.

I'm not really sure about all this yet. I guess I try to be more attentive and open to my partner's needs, even if I'm not comfortable with BDSM.

When considering your role in a BDSM dynamic, which of these statements resonates most with you?

I’m there to nurture and care for them, making sure my Dominant feels loved and attended to in all aspects.

I’m not one for roles. It’s more about what I can get away with and how I can make the usual rules more ‘interesting’ for me.

My role is to harmonize with my Dominant’s needs, ensuring their life is easier and more fulfilling.

Protecting my Dominant, not just physically but emotionally, making sure they always have a safe space with me.

I guess I’m still figuring out where I fit into all this, trying to be supportive in the ways that matter to them.

I see my role as subtly guiding our dynamic to fulfill my desires too.

How important is anonymity to you in your BDSM journey?

It's helpful with getting away with things, but I’m more concerned with the thrill of the experience than hiding my identity.

Not very. I'm eager to meet others and learn openly. I feel like hiding would hold me back.

It’s a tool. Anonymity can be used to my advantage, allowing me to navigate and manipulate my experiences more freely.

Extremely, it's essential. I'm not ready to share this part of myself with the world or even friends. Anonymity feels safe.

I value my privacy and the ability to explore my submissive side without risking my real-life identity online is enjoyable.

Very important. I'm not ready for anyone to know about this part of my life, since I'm not sure it is part of my life.

In what ways do you actively seek to engage sexually with your Dominant and others?

By steering my Dominant towards scenarios that fulfill my sexual desires under the guise of obedience. If others are involved, I ensure it benefits me or fits into my plan.

I'm cautious and still exploring what I'm comfortable with. Engaging sexually needs to be very private and on terms that we've thoroughly discussed and agreed upon.

My sexual engagement is deeply intertwined with my desire for degradation and humiliation. I offer myself to my Dominant seeking to fulfill their every demand as a form of my submission.

I seek to engage in ways that highlight my physique and obedience, always eager to fulfill my Dominant's commands to show off or perform sexually in front of others.

I actively seek out opportunities to explore various sexual encounters under my Dominant's guidance, enjoying the freedom and variety of experiences that come with engaging with as many partners as I can.

I don't just seek it; I demand it. I'll initiate, suggest, or outright challenge my Dominant to involve others, always looking to escalate the sexual tension and push past boundaries.

What role does service play in your submission?

Service is part of my duties, but the emotional and physical bonds of being owned are more central.

Service is a means to empower and elevate my Female Dominant, ensuring her needs and desires are paramount.

Service is the essence of my submission, the primary way I express my dedication and love.

Service is a strategy. It's about serving in ways that ultimately benefit me, carefully choosing tasks that elevate my status or influence.

Service? Only if it interests me. I might perform tasks, but I'll do them my way, often pushing back on expectations.

Service is integral, yet it's the totality and permenance of my surrender and obedience that defines my submission.

Service is a concept I'm still trying to understand. I want to be helpful, but I'm unsure how that fits into submission for me, rather than just how kind partners should be.

How do you view your role in a D/s dynamic?

As someone who tests the established norms and boundaries.

More as an observer or a learner, trying to understand my partner's interest in the D/s lifestyle.

I see myself as a supportive figure, facilitating my Dominant's vision by organizing and mentoring other workers or submissives.

As an efficient and strategic supporter, handling complex tasks with ease.

I often find myself managing situations to maintain a sense of control.

What aspect of BDSM play do you find most fulfilling?

The raw, physical intensity of a scene—where my primal instincts can fully emerge—is what I live for. It's about the power play, the struggle for dominance.

The psychological aspect. Influencing agreed boundaries provides a complex and fulfilling power play.

The trust and communication, but that's important in any relationship.

Executing a scene perfectly according to my Dominant's wishes, especially when Topping others as directed, brings me the greatest satisfaction. It's about service and submission.

The fluidity of switching roles within the same dynamic is incredibly fulfilling. I enjoy the diversity of experiences it brings into my submission.

The challenge and the taboo. Pushing past boundaries and exploring uncharted territories are what I find most fulfilling.

How do you feel when your Dominant challenges you to a physical or mental contest?

I see it as an opportunity to subtly demonstrate my own control within the guise of the contest.

I see it as an opportunity to learn and grow under their guidance. If topping activities are involved, I'll lead as instructed, always remembering my place as a submissive.

It ignites my primal instincts. Winning or losing shapes our dynamic, reinforcing who leads in our raw, power-driven relationship.

I'm eager to push the limits and often use it as a chance to explore how far I can go beyond the challenge.

It's a thrilling experience that allows me to explore both aspects of my nature, adapting my role to fit the needs of my Dominant or their other submissives.

I'm cautious as I'm not comfrotable with even basic BDSM and adding a challenge takes it even further outside my comfort zone.

How do you prefer to express your submission?

By embodying an animal persona that demonstrates loyalty and devotion.

I’m unsure about submission; I might try things to make my partner happy but prefer more vanilla expressions of love.

Through vulnerability and seeking nurturing care from my Dominant.

By challenging my Dominant in a playful manner to earn their attention and control.

My submission comes with questioning every limit; it's more about seeing how far I can push against constraints.

By subtly steering dynamics to satisfy my needs while appearing submissive.

During a quiet evening at home, how do you prefer to assist or accompany your Dominant?

I'd keep the mood light with some jokes or a funny story, ensuring we both have a relaxing and cheerful evening.

I subtly suggest activities I know I'll enjoy, steering the evening in a way that seems catered to them but also satisfies my preferences.

I would be more interested in just hanging out like we normally do as a couple. If they wanted to do a favorite pass time I would join in so they can have fun.

I make sure everything is comfortable and serene for them, perhaps by preparing a favorite drink or setting up a movie they love.

I might suggest something unexpected that wasn't agrreed on and would be what I enjoy.

My mind belongs to my Dominant and I woud want to carry out their orders and preferences correctly.

What is your ideal scenario for demonstrating your submission?

A dynamic where my entire existence is dedicated to serving, obeying, and being devoted to my Dominant, with no control of my own.

A ritual where I am formally collared or marked as owned forever.

A setting where I can attend to my Dominant, focused on my ability to serve and care for my Dominant, meeting their needs and desires.

An ideal dynamic allows me to appear submissive while actually guiding the relationship's direction to suit my needs.

A dynamic where I can explore at my own pace, with a partner who is patient and understanding as I am only looking into this for them.

Public scenarios where my submission is displayed in ways that challenge or unsettle onlookers.

Spending my life in devotion so I can support and uplift my Female Dominant's status.

What's your ideal first BDSM experience?

An experience where I appear to be the submissive but can influence the scene to ensure my needs are met first.

A scenario where I can provoke and challenge my Dominant, testing how far I can push before they push back.

Something guided and educational but still thrilling. Maybe a light play session at a local event where I can learn as I go.

A virtual scene where my Dominant gives me tasks or commands to follow at home. It feels safer to start this journey from behind the screen.

I don't really have one. I'm only looking into this for my partner.

I'm not sure yet. Maybe sharing fantasies online or having a very private and gentle introduction with a lot of reassurances.

When charged with a complex task or challenge on behalf of your Dominant, how do you typically respond?

I take it as an opportunity to subtly steer the outcome in a way that also satisfies my own needs or desires.

I coordinate closely with my Dominant to understand their expectations, then use my servant leadership skills to guide others or execute the task effectively, ensuring alignment with my Dominant's goals.

I apply my problem-solving skills and attention to detail to develop a strategic approach, organizing and executing the task with efficiency to meet my Dominant's standards.

I approach it with enthusiasm for the challenge, seeing it as a chance to push boundaries.

I try to understand the task as best as I can, focusing on how to achieve it in a way that would make my partner happy, even if I need to seek out more information or help.

What do you find most challenging about being submissive?

Ensuring that every detail of my dominant's business is handled and my service meets my Dominant's high standards.

Finding a Dominant who tolerates my unconventional approach to submission.

Balancing my servant leadership responsibilities with my own submissive responsibilies.

Not letting my desire to influence outcomes overshadow my role as a submissive.

Navigating a role and activities that are unfamiliar to me, aiming to please my partner while not being interested in all this.

What aspect of humiliation or degradation do you find most appealing or fulfilling in your submission?

The sheer defiance it allows me. I use the humiliation as a stepping stone to defy expectations and norms, turning what's meant to degrade me into a source of strength and retaliation.

All of it! The stripping away of my ego and the raw exposure of my vulnerabilities is what I find most fulfilling. It’s in these moments of degradation that I feel closest to my Dominant, fully immersed in my role.

I'm not sure I find it appealing at all. If anything, the trust and care involved in navigating those waters with my partner might be the only aspects I can appreciate.

While not the focus of my submission, being displayed or used publicly can come with its own form of humiliation, which I find empowering within the context of my Dominant's approval.

Any humiliation or degradation is purely a vehicle for heightened sexual pleasure. I find the taboo and the forbidden aspects of these interactions exhilarating, as long as they amplify the overall sexual experience.

The psychological play. It's not about the degradation itself but about the power dynamics at play. I find satisfaction in enduring it as a testament to my control over my reactions and my ability to guide the situation.

How do you contribute to the planning and execution of special occasions or surprises for your Dominant?

I steer the plans in a way that fulfills their wishes while also aligning with my own interests, ensuring an enjoyable experience for myself.

I like to surprise them in sessions by going off script and doing things we didn't agree to or plan.

I take care of all the details, ensuring everything is perfect and to their liking, making the occasion stress-free for them.

I add a unique twist to the plans, ensuring there’s an element of fun and unexpectedness that will make them laugh.

As my Dominant's mental repository I am aware of all they want and desire and work tirelessly to provide special and surprissing situations they will enjoy.

I already plan special occasions for things like anniversaires and birthdays, that just a normal part of any relationship.

Which of these activities appeals to you most within a BDSM context?

Enduring intense physical sensations that push my pain thresholds.

Engaging in edge play that gets the adrenline pumping and tests my physical and psychological limits.

Participating in fear play that toys with my deepest anxieties and fears.

Pushing the limits of consent and exploring taboo or extreme activities.

Exploring scenarios that involve real life stakes or vulnerability with the possibility of being ruined!

BDSM desn't appeal to me, I am trying to find elements I can tolerate for my partner's benefit.

Orchestrating a scene where my hidden desires are met under the guise of submission.

When your Dominant faces a challenging day, how do you prefer to offer support?

I prepare by creating a calm, nurturing space for them to relax, with their favorite meals and comfort activities ready.

I’d probably suggest something non-kinky that we both enjoy, like watching a movie or going out to eat.

I try to ease their stress by ensuring all their needs are met and offering emotional support.

Might stir things up to take their mind off it. If they’re not setting limits, I’m not following them.

I find ways to subtly suggest activities that I also enjoy hoping it will still cheer them up.

I make sure all potential stressors are handled, so they have less to worry about, ensuring they feel supported and protected.

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